Label: Universal People Improvement - none • Format: CD Album • Country: US • Genre: Funk / Soul • Style: Neo Soul
An emotional wound can be caused by the ill intentions of others, the good intentions of others, and even the actions of ourselves. We are not always responsible for the wound, but we are responsible for how we care for it, how we respond to it, and whether it will build our character or whether it will pull us further from our best self. Sometimes I think the way we hurt ourselves the most is by allowing someone to hurt us.
The main difference between physical and emotional wounds is that your body will quickly begin healing itself without your permission, with emotional wounds and trauma, it is up to you to mend and acknowledge what is deeply rooted within you that may be hindering your growth. You have to confront what is in that depth, and you are the only one who knows what it is.
I have a friend who is a very good-hearted person, and probably one of the nicest people I know. She is in a relationship with someone who is definitely not the nicest person I know.
Her heart is so big that she is convinced she can change the behaviors and abusive nature of her partner. It is important that I be honest here. This idea that you can change an abrasive person by giving them love, is child-like and self-destructive. If you are consciously aware that you are in an abusive relationship, whether physical, emotional or mental, you are responsible for how you handle that.
I was once in a relationship where I knew I was being cheated on the entire time, but I really believed it would change, even after years. Love will really blind you, and if you get the right kind of bastard, love can be brainwashing. Be mature and move on! So what did I do after my relationship to begin the healing process? I got with someone else duh, the best way to do it! This is the worst thing you can do, and I did it.
That mistake led me to years of being a cold-hearted bitch to say the least. I formed relationships with people as a coping mechanism to a bad break up. I would literally pray every morning to just be able to feel. I was numb to everything. Much of my healing came from not hiding the fact that I was hurt. Healing for me came from writing, therapy, art, and being more vulnerable than I have ever wanted to be.
It meant being uncomfortable, it meant letting go, it meant being emotionally naked. It meant crying in public, it meant Stay (Airscape Remix) - Various - Pure Trance Party! Volume 2 holding it in. It is a choice. I Pipe Dreams - Urban Ave 31 - The Antidote - The Healing Pt 2 at it like this, I am still The Golden Gate Quartet - Negro Spirituals home to myself.
I am not there yet, but at least I am on my way. Loved it, is it me? Sounds so familiar, love u to forever, u r fearfully Pipe Dreams - Urban Ave 31 - The Antidote - The Healing Pt 2 wonderfully made, a daughter of the most high God!!!! Like Liked by 1 person. Uplifting and Raw!! The words just flow naturally from your beautiful heart. Like Cuckoo - The Monks - Black Time. You are commenting using your WordPress.
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